#Dom or Sub

[sageispunk]

love a man who gets on his knees for u fr

[bigsoftmarshmallow]

I tend to see ELady as a switch who is a natural service top or soft dom when in charge. Just, her natural inclination is to leave her lover breathless & feeling treasured & fully satisfied.

I also tend to see her as the sort who exerts her control in much more subtle ways. Ways that her lover tends to not even notice.

So, if in the end, he's left shaking & teary-eyed, but really freaking satisfied & clutching unto her, desperate to keep her close, then she feels that she’s done her job. (Even if he still thinks he's the one in-charge at the end.)

Yeah, no, not even going to attempt ChatGPT with this one. This will be all me.

Most of my self inserts are switches, Sub leaning but can Dom if the mood hits them right. They are caretakers and in charge in public, so in bed, they want to be mindless and submit and not have to worry about much. When they are in charge in bed, they are sweet and kind, massaging their lover, giving kisses and bites, really vocal too.

Doc, my MHA oc, is someone who is Ace, and even if I try to imagine her as someone who does have sex (if she could ever trust someone that much to allow them to see her that vulnerable) I don't see her being submissive at all. She would be in charge throughout the process.

Champion, my Pokemon OC, is a full blooded switch. She can be a mean or service top, and she can be a power bottom or a really subby bottom. Depends on what she and her partner needs, really.

[oraclekleo]

I got page of pentacles for myself its a bit harder to read sexually than yours for me but id say pretty mild ? Not really dom not really sub someone practical so that will adapt ? Earthy would make me think of someone more dom but page looks always so soft to me

Yeah... I think you are picking it up right.

Like Page of Pentacles isn't exactly dom. The Page is very adaptable. They can handle stuff when they need to but they are naturally curious and more like... a student type of personality. I would say the Page could mean that you have the enthusiasm but you don't really feel like enough of an expert to be a dom. Like you are not exactly a sub that could be manipulated but rationally you know you don't want to have the responsibility of a dom just yet. They seem to me like a pretty chill and subtle person. You are discovering what you like and what you don't like. More of a sub but with a potential to be a dom shall you wish to become one.

This is really fun experiment. 😂

[twpsyn-who]

"Dom or sub?"

Switch, actually. You know, technically speaking. Practically I'm a virgin. But those are just details. Irrelevant, I assure you.

[hiimnothere1]

I'd love to cuddle someone with a bunch of toys on. Vibrators, rope, dog bone gag, dildos and everything possible. Put it all on high while I cuddle them and hold them tight so I can feel them struggle.

I'll play with their hair, rubbing their body all over while whispering, encouraging words to them like

"You're doing so good, puppy. Keep going"

"You squeezing me so tight, darling."

"You can cum all you want, baby"

Or maybe I'll be mean and say

"You're moving around too much. Stop it"

"You're cumming again? You're so pathetic"

"You're wayyyy too fucking loud"

Maybe I'll replace the dildo in them so I can feel their needy little hole tighten around me as they orgasm.

I wonder how long it would be when they give up trying to hold it in and just start uncontrollably twitching and moaning.

I'll be sure to kiss them while saying even more words into their ear

"Shhhh. Just keep cumming, honey"

"Just let it alllll out"

"You're so cute when you lose control"

Maybe while they squirm, they'd naturally have me slide in and out of them making them feel even better. I'm sure they'd be so desperate to be filled up with cum so they'd move and struggle more trying to get me to fill their little stomach up with cum.

Maybe if I do, I'll pull them really tight to hold them down so they can do nothing but take the stimulation from the toys while they feel me fill their stupid little hole up.

Ahhh, but it's just a fantasy :(

No one to make it true

[afterdarkftm]

Being fingered by someone under a blanket while you're watching a movie…. whispering filthy things into your ear while you're softly grinding against their hand…..

[esoterictboy]

I just think it’s super hot when people are bent over naked like, face down ass up showing everything. Like they’re just so fucking horny they don’t even wanna know what comes next it’s the perfect position like I could spit in your hole one minute and be breeding you the next and you’re just so desperate for it you don’t even care you’re practically shoving your hole in my face you just drool all over yourself and cum ? It’s fucking slutty.

@/tooesoteric2tboy - now

[notaluckypup]

The intimacy of getting to know someone’s kinks and slowly but surely slipping them into conversation~

Slipping them that extra little “good job” after basic tasks and watching their cheeks get hot and their eyes dart around the room.

Asking them to grab a drink and watching the jolt in their step when they register the word “fetch” a second too late.

The back and forth debates and silly arguments ending in cutting them off with a simple “you’re so cute when you get excited”

The tease behind all those knowing glances and trace of the hand touches becoming just too overwhelming until my poor pup is stuttering through conversation and grinding its thighs together begging to be touched😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫

[gooobraghhh]

I take overstimulation extremely seriously just so we’re all aware.

Most I’ve ever made a guy cum was 27 times in one session and all of those happened in the span of about 5-10 minutes

Got him really warmed up and started fucking him with a dildo while I alternated between whispering in his ear, biting his neck, playing with his chest etc. After only a minute or two he shyly muttered out that he was going to cum. I stopped, stared directly at him and we had this brief, telling moment of eye contact before he got so embarrassed he had to turn away. We both knew he was under the impression he couldn’t cum without touching his dick and the fact he almost just did was so fucking hot to me.

I pinned his leg over my shoulder and continued. Within a minute he was back to how he was before, just on the verge and I kept moving it while he shook beneath me. Finally let up after he came all over my hand and I asked if he’d cum sarcastically to make fun of how obvious and hard it was and he just whimpered out “… I came twice”

He absolutely should not have told me this because as soon as I knew making him cum over and over was on the table I was determined to go as far as I possible could, and hearing him say two like that was addictively cute. I Pinned him even more and continued, told him to count every time he cums before quickly getting back into it.

27 times I made this very masc dude cum. 27!

Didn’t even think that was a possible number. Every 15-30 seconds I’d feel him tense up and clench on the dildo then I’d hear his little chocked voice murmur out a number before I kept going. He made a giant fucking mess, squirting basically each time in the beginning. I kept moving the goal post further and further, “come on let’s just get to 10 puppy!”, “I think we could do 15 don’t you?”, “Whoops that was a 16th one, well we might as well get to twenty, right?”. He was fully trembling, shaking, crying. His eyes were in constant state of being rolled back and the noises he was making were so intense. The best part was hearing him count though, it was the only coherent thing he would say and he struggled to get out each number but if he didn’t count I’d start choking him.

Hearing a grown man moan out “25” or whatever ridiculous number we were on has to be one of the hottest things I’ve experienced. I would have kept going forever but he was begging and pleading for me to stop and for some reason I don’t think he believed that I’d really let him be done at 30

He was a complete fucking mess after as you’d imagine. Basically just sat there in a daze for 10 minutes but I made sure to make fun of him. I mean 27? Really? Just an embarrassingly high number. He also physically couldn’t handle any play for like several days after this so safe to say I throughly worked him out.

I guess now my goal in life will be to get someone to 30

[cimarronshero]

what's that called? when a dom just can't help but be vocal about how badly they want you. when they just keep grunting in your ear, when they talk to you, telling you how hard and wet you're making them, when they describe how you're making them feel. doms who forgive so easily when you misbehave, because you're just their lovely thing. doms who make you look at yourselves in the mirror, whispering all the filthiest details of what they want to do to you. doms who keep fucking you after you came, or hell, after they came, because you feel too good and they just can't stop.

needy doms. yeah that one. i want that one.

[mommyloveyoutoo]

Mommy love to give her slutty daughter her attention and love when we take shower together

Even if her father and her boyfriend in living room I don't care

[mommynr]

overstimulated boys that whine "i love you, i love you, i love you" over and over again, when they're on the verge of cumming, are the most precious little playthings !! <3

[oraclekleo]

thank you so much for allowing me to experiment on you ! its fun

Is Kleo dom or sub ? 1 card pull - knight of wands

if im hearing knight of wands i go dom most likely lmao ! BUT that one looks cheeky so ill say a dom who is adventurous, warm and passionnate with a bratty side to them

id be so happy to hear your critics and opinion

🤣🤣🤣

Oh dear!

Yeah, that one looks like me 🤣

I mean yeah, I agree that Knight of Wands is more likely a dom but as you rightly pointed out, he's not like a hard dom. For example Knight of Swords would be much harder dom, like... bordering a sadist or just straight sadist. But Knight of Wands does have the kinda bratty charm to them, this one looks very cheeky like watching some prank they set up and it's about to go off and they are like 'Hihi! This is gonna be so fun!'

So yeah, I agree with you. And it does in a way apply to me. Like... I can't really take orders well so I'm most certainly a dom but at the same time, I want to have fun. 😂

Well! See! Your experiment worked really nicely!

Also Knight of Wands is often my significator card (either him or Queen of Wands). So it really resonates!

Well done!

Consider this test successful! ✨👍

[angelic-omega]

DOMS NEED AFTERCARE TOO!!!

Tell them they did good

Remind them they didn’t hurt you and that you are mentally ok

If they did hurt you tell them how much you enjoyed it

Tell them you felt safe in your scene

Make sure they hydrate and refuel with a little snack if they need it

Thank them for fulfilling your desires

Cuddle them, pet them, hold them

If either of you safeworded discuss why you did so and how to prevent it from progressing that far in the future

Relax! Watch a movie play some video games together! Don’t just leave or ask them to leave afterwards…doms are not just sentient sex toys

[hiimnothere1]

Imagine punishing a brat by tying them down and overstimming them with toys. They start off defiant and curse you while cumming a few times.

"F-Fuck you"

"I hate y-you"

"Y-You suck"

So you just sit there, keeping them nice and stimulated while they cum over and over again until they need to use you for support and start breaking.

"fuckfuckfuck"

"You're doing so good, darling. We'll keep going until you learn your lesson"

Until they start begging and apologizing for being a brat for no reason.

"pleasepleasepleaseimsorryitwonthappenagain"

When they're clearly overstimmed and tired but you just keep pushing them anyway.

"P-Please it's too much, I can't cum anymore" they'll whine and whimper

But you just keep going until they orgasm again.

"What are you talking about? You clearly can keep going, you liar"

So you punish them for "lying" to you with more overstimulation, watching them slowly spiral more out of control as their consciousness slips.

Completely an imaginary situation though

[afterdarkftm]

Sexting me while Im out with friends?

Absolutely you should do that